H. Adrian Loudermilk

Messages

1. November 15, 2022

   Mr.

   Hello Adrian,
   It’s me Cochise your friend from way back. It was always cool hanging with you and your Dad.

   Cochise Rodriguez

2. November 15, 2022

   Mr.

   Hello Adrian,
   It’s me Cochise your friend. You are missed. Rest easy.

   Cochise Rodriguez

3. November 15, 2022

   Mr.

   Hello Adrian,
   It’s me Cochise your friend. You are missed. Rest easy.

   Cochise

4. October 19, 2019

   Thinking of you

   I’m no one that you knew or even heard of. I just wanted to leave a message saying that, despite you not knowing me, I am thinking of you and your life spent here, and the impact you must have had on other people in the world. You are not forgotten.
   To the family, I hope you all are well and getting through the labyrinth that is life. Well wishes.

   anonymous

5. July 16, 2016

   Another Year Without You

   11 years and it still feels new. The days go by and I still miss you. (The start of a poem I’m thinking about writing for you. We’ll see how long it takes me to finish it – lol). Brendan is a world traveler now and is really living and loving life. Lauryn has blossomed into a smart and funny woman. They’re amazing and I am so proud of them. Thank you for watching over them. I love you. xoxo

   Terri Loudermilk

6. February 21, 2016

   Happy Birthday

   Happy Birthday. Thinking of you – as always – and thought I’d stop by and have some Thai food in your honor. I love you and miss you so much.

   Terri Loudermilk

7. July 16, 2015

   Thinking of You

   Well here I am after 10 years and the loss of you just doesn’t seem any easier. I was telling your dad today that I thought I might be a grandmother if you were still alive. Brendan and Lauryn seem to be taking the same approach as you, in that they are waiting – until they have fulfilled their own lives ambitions – before they start a “family life”. I applaud all of you. That you have foresight enough to know what you want from life is more than most people at your age could even guess at. Brendan is on his bike ride from Canada to San Francisco and he just arrived in Oregon today. Lauryn is working hard as always. I know you are watching over them and I appreciate you keeping them safe. Know that I’m thinking of you. I love you and miss you always. You’ve missed some great leftovers recently. ;)xoxo

   Terri Loudermilk

8. July 16, 2015

   Happy Birthday

   Well here I am after 10 years and the loss of you just doesn’t seem any easier. I was telling your dad today that I thought I might be a grandmother if you were still alive. Brendan and Lauryn seem to be taking the same approach as you, in that they are waiting – until they have fulfilled their own lives ambitions – before they start a “family life”. I applaud all of you. That you have foresight enough to know what you want from life is more than most people at your age could even guess at. Brendan is on his bike ride from Canada to San Francisco and he just arrived in Oregon today. Lauryn is working hard as always. I know you are watching over them and I appreciate you keeping them safe. Know that I’m thinking of you. I love you and miss you always. You’ve missed some great leftovers recently. ;)xoxo

   Terri Loudermilk

9. December 9, 2014

   Always Thinking About You

   I miss you so much. I find myself thinking about you all the time – nothing new there I. I wish you were here to see all the great accomplishments Brendan and Lauryn have made in their lives and to share in it. I know you would be so happy for them. Brendan is in Thailand right now for three months on vacation – although he is finding time for work. Lauryn is doing so well in her new job and I am so proud of her. She didn’t get any time off from her graduation until she started her new job. They both support me on so many levels and I know you would be proud of them for taking care me. I miss you and wish that I could see you in person, so we could talk things over while you eat my leftovers in the refrigerator. I love you.

   Terri Loudermilk

10. July 18, 2013

    Miss You More Than Ever

    I miss you so much. I know I’m usually writing to you on your anniversary, but I just am so lost this year and wish we could have one of our talks. You will always be in my heart and soul. I know you are watching over Brendan and Lauryn and must be as proud of them as I am. I love you.

    Terri Loudermilk

11. February 21, 2013

    Happy Birthday

    Happy Birthday Adrian. Here’s what’s going on with the Loudergang. Dad and I went to the opening for Brendan’s new office last night. What an amazing atmosphere to work in. I know you would be as proud of him as we are. He is doing great. Starting in March he will be teaching a class on RoR 2 days a week from 7-10. Lauryn is loving SSU and has decided to move off campus for her last year. She just turned 21 and is not only going to school full time but working too. She is working on a project for NASA and hoping for an internship at Brendan’s company this summer. Dad is putting up a good fight against the aches and pains of age and keeps himself busy working around the house, reading and helping out a friend who remodeled his home. I miss you and love you. XOXO

    Terri Loudermilk

12. July 16, 2012

    Never Forget

    Another year has gone by and I still miss you as much as the first day. Brendan posted a great tribute to you on Facebook and you’d be so proud of the man he has become. Lauryn is so far from shy these days you would never guess that she ever was.
    I miss you Adrian but then you know that. Thanks for being there for me when I need to talk to you. I love you now and forever and will never stop missing you.
    xo

    MOYB

13. February 21, 2012

    Happy Birthday

    Happy Birthday Adrian.I Love You.

    MOYB

14. July 17, 2011

    Thinking of you

    Do you believe Lauryn making the Dean’s list both semester’s?!!! And she has changed her Major to Comp Sci – with her two bro’s so in tune how could she not – with a Minor in Art. I never doubted she would carry the Loudermilk art gene. Brendan is doing so great. I’m proud that he is following his heart and not the almighty dollar.I know you are proud of both of them and I’m sure you saw Brendan when he was hanging out last weekend. I miss you so much, as if it were just yesterday.
    Know that we keep you close to our hearts and always in our mind and thoughts.
    I wish I could give you a hug and remind you of how much I love you.
    xo

    Terri Loudermilk

15. May 15, 2011

    Every single day

    I miss your voice. I wish I could just hear it one more time. Watch you laugh. Watch you do that thing with your hair.
    It hurts
    Every Single Day
    I miss you
    I love yoy

    Butthead

16. February 21, 2011

    Birthday

    Happy Birthday Adrian. Brendan and Lauryn are doing great. Brendan is now a boss at the company he is working for and went to Thailand for Christmas. His own company is doing well too. Lauryn is at Sonoma State University and doing excellent. She finally took an art class this semester and I’m so glad that she is putting the Loudermilk “art gene” to work. You would be so proud of both of them. Dad and I are still living in Costa Rica. He spends his days working on the house but then what’s new about that.I love you and will miss you forever.

    Terri Loudermilk

17. February 21, 2010

    Birthday

    Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. I think of you often and hope you can see how good your brother Brendan is doing. Lauryn is finishing up High School and is hoping to get in to Berkeley in August.Dad is doing okay but misses you so much. He still has some hard days but we work through them together.
    Love you, Miss You,
    Forever

    Your Other Mother

18. December 10, 2009

    Adrian

    I miss you buddy.

    Jon Barton

19. November 25, 2009

    Its that time of year.....

    thinking about you. glad you are watching us scurry around all over the place getting ready for the holidays. wish you could meet rd. he would love you…. and think you are hilarious. miss you lots. love you.

    CU

20. February 21, 2008

    Today' your Birthday

    Brendan asked what we’re doing for your birthday today. I wish I could celebrate in some way that could include the entire family, but we are scattered now. I’ll toast you at dinner and then later I’ll look at pictures, wonder again at the incredible person, son and man you were…………And I’ll continue to wish we had all been able to watch the many great moves you were so close to accomplishing. You would have done it all son. We had no doubt, ever.I will love you and think of you til my dying breath, and then I will look you up in person.
    Happy Birthday. Dad. My love for you will never die, and our lives will never be the same, but we remember you with happiness and rememberance of your goofy sense of humor and your quick wit.
    I love you. DAD

    Dad

21. February 21, 2008

    Happy Birthday

    I miss you so much!!!! I am wishing you a Happy Birthday and so much wish that you could be with us to celebrate your 33rd. Lots of stuff happening, but you know that from me talking to you. I love you, always and forever.

    MOYB

22. August 21, 2007

    always

    You are never out of my thoughts, and I’ll never stop missing you. I love you kiddo.

    #2

23. July 16, 2007

    Winner Winner Chicken Dinner.

    I miss you.

    CU

24. February 21, 2007

    Happy Birthday

    Happy Birthday. I want so bad to hear your voice and see your beautiful smile. Miss you and Love you forever.

    TMOYB

25. December 13, 2006

    Not yet

    i think about you all the time. i just cant come and see you yet. i’m sorry i missed all your birthdays in L.A. and that i never visited you, but i know you understand. i dont think i have fully been able to accept things for what they are. one day soon though, when i find my way, i want you to know that the first thing I will do is let my heart lead me, so I can visit you. i know you’re having a blast and doing just fine, but that doesnt mean i want you there. anywho, i’ll eat some cream puffs and napoleons for you this x-mas. i’ll be seeing you.

    CU

26. November 1, 2006

    ART Compound

    I know your here with us, but I can’t help wishing I could get one of your kisses and a big hug. The compound is coming along. Dad and Brendan did an amazing job designing the garage and Brendan’s “apartment”. xo

    TMOYB

27. April 18, 2006

    Loudermilk CR Adventure

    Dad and Brendan went on a wonderful adventure to Costa Rica. Dad was great in emailing a daily journal. I wish you were here so we could talk about in person. I miss you, not only for me, but for everyone else.

    tmoyb

28. April 3, 2006

    ride

    The weather got good and i took my first ride. You where on the back, a lot smaller, a lot younger. We took the same road by the church, the school, grandmas. It was a good ride. you where with me. I love you. we will ride again.

    rb

29. February 23, 2006

    Missing You

    I wake up every morning looking at a picture of you. I miss your voice, you miss you cutting me off on the phone “Mom, Mom, I gotta go”, I miss your laugh, I still keep thinking you are going to show up at the front door. I still want to call you and share something, I still have your numbers programmed into my phone. The only difference now Son, is that when I talk to you, you don’t answer…… I know you hear me though.I love you…..

    Mom

30. February 14, 2006

    Happy Valentine's Day

    Happy Valentine’s Day. I Love You.

    TMOYB

31. January 20, 2006

    Missing you

    Just wanted to say hi. Miss you. Love you.

    TMOYB

32. December 21, 2005

    empty hart

    Love you son. I’ll miss you.

    R B

33. December 19, 2005

    xmas

    Dad picked a set of wind of South Park figures and a set of movable Gumby characters and we’ve decided to make them from you and grandma. I’ve given Brendan the same car cleaning set I gave you for your VW. I miss you.
    XOXO

    TMOYB

34. November 28, 2005

    Louderdump

    I missed you this t-day. Rolly tried and almost succeeded in matching you re my subject. Never the same without you here. Miss you and think of you daily. XO

    "TMOYB"

35. July 31, 2005

    Call me sometime, Adrian

    Adrain used to have this crazy forrest scene painted on his bathroom wall. One Saturday night I went over and Adrian let me paint on it. I painted mermaids. Adrian did not help — he just sat back with a glass of wine and watched me paint. “Your mermaid is startled” he said. Do you think that was a euphemism? What a great time. I’ll never paint a mermaid with another guy! xoxox bj

    Becky Jones